Title: Best Friend, The (Life at Kingston High)
Author: Melody Carlson
Primary Audience/age group: Young Adult
Genre: Christian Chick Lit
# Of pages: 215
Publisher: Revell
Year of Release: 2012
Part of a Series? Yes, 2 of 3 Life at Kingston High)
Rating: 4 (View Scale)
Recommend? Yes
Read the review of The Jerk Magnet (Bk 1)
Description: After losing her best friend, Janelle,
to the fabulously-styled Chelsea, Lishia is on the lookout to fill the vacant
friendship. When she spots the once-popular Riley on the outskirts of the
cafeteria, Lishia pounces at the opportunity to befriend her despite Riley’s
not-so-spotless reputation as a mean girl. Unbeknownst to Lishia, Riley has
some plans of her own that include using Lishia to exact revenge. Will Lishia
take the bait and risk losing her good girl reputation or will she spot the
truth before the damage has been done?
Review: The Best
Friend, sequel to The Jerk Magnet
by Melody Carlson, is as fun and timely as the first. Lishia Vance, minor
character in The Jerk Magnet, has
taken center stage as the irked ex-best friend of Janelle who dropped her for
the gorgeous Chelsea in book one. At least that is how Lishia sees it. Lishia,
feeling alone, decides to befriend a not-so-nice girl and thus begins her
downfall. Carlson, with her real-to-life scenarios, shows how even the good,
Christian girl can slowly walk away from God and into a huge mess.
Positive: Lishia
and her mom have a very open relationship. Her mom is very supportive and is
always willing to listen. She encourages Lishia to pray about her choices. Even
though Lishia has not been very kind to some of her old friends, they step up
and help Lishia when she asks. One friend, Megan, encourages her to return to
youth group and to do the right thing concerning her friendship with Riley. She
offers Lishia sound Christian advice.
Spiritual Elements: Lishia and most of her friends
are Christians. Lishia starts out trying to be a better Christian by memorizing
the “fruits of the Spirit.” She admits she does not truly understand them. But
once she becomes closer friends with Riley, she starts making choices she would
not have otherwise made. She feels convicted several times but does not act on
those convictions right away. She feels distant from God and considers that
maybe she has lost her faith and that God does not want to “talk” to her
anymore. {Slight Spoiler Alert}However, God
reveals Himself to her through her reading the Bible, and she begins making
amends with those she has hurt or betrayed even though it is very difficult for
her.
Violence: none
Language: none
Sexual Content: The more Lishia hangs out with Riley,
the more she begins to act uncharacteristically of herself. She attends
un-chaperoned parties where she kisses someone she hardly knows and pretends to
drink an alcoholic beverage in order to gain his attention. Once he’s
interested, she goes with him to his parent’s bedroom, but they are interrupted
before anything happens.
Other: Riley
is only concerned about herself and uses Lishia to take revenge on another
cheerleader. At first, Lishia is hesitant but is so desperate to be accepted by
Riley that she goes along with her plans.
Recommendation: I
highly recommend the book for ages 12 and up. Below are some great points to think about and discuss
after reading the book. One of the benefits of a Christian life is having the
Holy Spirit as a guide (because the Spirit helps us, Romans 8:26). However, it
is up to each Christian to decide whether she listens to this guidance or not
as is in the case of Lishia. Several times, Lishia feels convicted about her
choices but decides to ignore these thoughts and entertain sinful ideas until
she does not feel convicted anymore. She rationalizes these erroneous choices
and blocks out thoughts of what her mother would think about the situations.
The Bible explains how sin is a process that begins in our
hearts. Mark 7: 21 says, “For it is from within, out
of a person’s heart, that evil thoughts come…” Then
it goes on to name specific sins such as deceit, envy, and slander, all of
which Lishia went on to do.
The Bible also says, “When tempted, no one
should say, “God is tempting me.” For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does
he tempt anyone; but each person is tempted when they
are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed. Then,
after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is
full-grown, gives birth to death.” James 1:13-15
However, God promises that when we are tempted to sin, He
will always provide a way out. “No temptation has overtaken you except what
is common to mankind. And God is
faithful; he will not let you be
tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will
also provide a way out so that you can endure it.” 1 Corinthians 10:13 Look
for that way out!
Even after sin, God can still pull us back into a close relationship with Him through repentance. “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” 1 John 1:9
The Bible also warns of choosing friends wisely. “The righteous choose their friends carefully, but the way of the wicked leads them astray.” Proverbs 12:26
This does not mean Christians cannot be
friends with those who do not share their faith. But, if a Christian’s closest
friends do not share the same values, then those friends are living by the
flesh and are controlled by their sinful nature, not the Spirit as Christians
are (Romans 8:5-9). Thus, like in Lishia’s case, it can equal to being led into
sin.





